Just remember the start of the relationships.
You meet him for the first time it doesn’t matter on the street or on social
media after you get know each other. In one moment you understand that he is
On the first date you are beautiful, sensitive and a little bit shy. You are listening to him attentively, asking about his dreams and goals and convincing him that he is not far from success. You are not asking him with anger in voice who did call him, didn’t start tantrum if he said that he would be busy tomorrow and immediately did try to wash his shirt if the drop of wine fell on it.
You spend days, mounts like this and finally he
proposed to you. You post lots of sweet pictures on social media to make your
friends and exes jealous.
And it seems to you that ‘game is over’ because the ring is in your finger.
In a while you put your wedding dress in the
dark corner, the photos are printed and love story has been watched by all your
friends. The real married life has started.
You don’t like his staying late at work and unknown callings during having dinner together. You are angry because he didn’t propose to take you from work when it was raining. You washed, dried and settled all his clothes but he even didn’t admit that.
You are angry carrying the resentment in your heart thinking that he lost the warm feelings about you. You meet him with offence face, get annoyed his stupid jokes and after all run to your friends for advice.
Because of these manipulations his attitude to you becomes worse and worse. For you it is a sigh that he has lost the interest or found someone else. But it is not that bad like seems.
Girls, he was scared of you not because he was timid but he simply didn’t know you like this. And now it is hard for him to find right reaction.
Both of partners are in charge for relationships. But women should not let this relationships collapse. Let him taking care of stability and protection. We will work on emotional side of relationships.
be offended and jealous.
He is working hard for you to drive beautiful car and have your child attend good football classes. He has his own business and interest, it is amazing.
to him about your desires.
It is easy. Call him and ask for lifting you home from work when it is raining. He can’t read your thoughts. Moreover he can’t guess your desires if he has too much work or his parents are sick.
be victim in relationship.
If you are tired you shouldn’t make laundry till night and wait for applauses. First, he didn’t know that you are tired. Second, he even cannot know that you have done this work. If his thoughts are busy he cannot notice that. If you are tired don’t make yourself do housework.
Don’t ask him every time who has just called him or how old his secretary is. Being flirtatious with somebody made him more confident but who calls him has nothing common with feelings.
him remember who he got married with.
Men need to see emotions from women. Just remember how you were smiling on the first date. How supportive and not angry you were. How you were proud of your own achievement and considering him cool because of his new huge project. Moreover you were trying to look for 100% all the time.
Marriage license is not a trophy. But if you are not trying to maintain your relationship you will lose this game. Make your marriage more and more happy every day.
Based on materials: wnews.pub