Probably every woman, planning or being already on the threshold of a family, seriously thinks: does her favorite or potentially beloved man have the qualities that every self-respecting future father should have?
Of course, it is not easy to understand in advance. However, there are a number of signs that can help to determine whether your candidate will be a good dad or not.
Pay attention: if he doesn’t want to know what a vacuum cleaner and washing machine is, and you have to wash his dishes and generally pick him up like a small child, it's unlikely that you will be able to share responsibilities in the house in a proper and honest way.
Yes, and it is unlikely that a man who can’t get clean the house will be able to change a baby's diaper when it's needed.
If, under sharply changed conditions, a man can’t adjust to them, but simply sits down and waits for help, then you are unlikely to get serious initiative from him in matters of childcare - you will have to save yourself and the baby without his help.
We guarantee: from a person who changes summer and winter tires in time, reacts quickly to unexpected dangers and easily takes on the turn to cook dinner, most likely a talented and able father will turn out.
Taking care of a pet is somewhat reminiscent of taking care of young children - in this matter an important role is played by responsibility, attention and alertness. If a man has an experience of living with a cat or a dog, he is most likely not to be discouraged when he will need custody for children.
If he always complains when you just leave to have a manicure or drink a cup of coffee with a friend, if it’s extremely important for him that you always be there and not leaving him, then most likely, he is not such an independent guy.
It is difficult to rely on such people in the upbringing of children since they themselves are like children.
If he knows how to cook breakfast or lunch on his own without requiring it from you, if he ends his business and if someone else's time for him is not an empty phrase, then most likely he can be given high hopes.
An independent man is an independent father. Above this, you don’t have to stand and tell what and how to do with the child.
saying tells “Where there is the will..”! If a man has a desire to become a good
dad, and there is a persistent intention to succeed in this field, then, most
likely, it is worth expecting from him serious success. The main thing is that
the desire echoes the action!